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We seem to have alot on common - age, relationship, time of relationship .. etc.
From personal experience, I'll tell you this - I thought things would work out. I thought we could be friends. However, I guess I thought wrong. I was way too hurt about everything, and every time I talked to him it made it worse. Finally, just last night, after a month of continuous fighting, I cut him loose. I got tired of getting hurt.
The best advice I got was to just cut yourself completely off. I know how hard it is, its a complete lifestyle change. I don't hate the guy, but I sure hold alot of contempt for him. Just do everything you can to bond with old friends, have a good time .. just don't try to dwell on it. I got hurt so bad I have to go to therapy now .. so please, do yourself a favor, no matter how much it hurts.. Remember that your friendship won't last if you force it.
My boyfriend was by far my best friend, and one of the best people I've ever met. I think time will heal some wounds.. and until then .. we're nothing.
Its hard, but I hope things work out for you.
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