Whoa, timely question for me.
I was with a girl for 5 years, and we broke up last August. We have seen each other a hand full of times since then. She really wanted me back, but I said no. Now a full 9 months later she came to my Grad party and we talked like friends.
Despite this there was still tension.
I would say for your mutual mental health that you should not talk to her (Or talk very little) for the next 6-9 months (this will depend on the length of the relationship), after that you can talk and hang out again but there will still probably be tension unless it was a mutual breakup.
Good luck and post back often!!
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