Just be friends. He sounds like a great guy. Try to do group things so nothing awkward comes up. Then if he ever breaks up you aren't the cause but you are still around and "available" hopefully. If nothing else you'll have a good friend. It sounds like he's a decent guy who knows how to have fun, take a little teasing (which to me means self confident) and is considerate to his girl since as you say he let you know about her pretty early on. He's a guy you don't want to hurt, but you do want to stick around. Plus if you end up hooking up with his buddy you might not be too bad off. Birds of a feather flock together so it's very possible that his buddy is a lot like him in personality. The grass is always greener on the other side. Be happy with how things are for now.
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