That seems to be the main arugment between my roommate and group of friends. All of us LOVE to cook (some of them just love to eat) but no one knows what everyone wants. We end up just eating out for lack of ideas. I end up choosing what we are cooking (depending on if I cooked at work that day) and just flip through my recipe books till I find something I want. Or I just sit and daydream about food till something makes my stomach rumble
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