Amethyst

Okay, My husband works full time and goes to school full time so I do most of the work around the house. But if I ask him to do something he does it and it's great. I feel if I don't work I should do the house work and mow the lawn. Sometimes there are things that I can't do and need him to do. So, I ask him to do them. Lately when I ask him to do something he doesn't do it. For a while he was working and going to school so I would just let it go. But now that he is out of school I think that he should do the projectsthat I asked him to do. I don't want to ask him more than one time to do something because I feel that I am nagging and I don't want to do that. So, should I make a list and give it to him? Or should I just keep asking him and nag?