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Amethyst, i pretty much hear ya on the feeling second rate because of the type of girls your SO chooses to gawk at. I find it really really tough because i know i don't look a damn thing like any freaking porn star and it makes me second guess myself sometimes in the bedroom.
However, once i was able to start taking steps back and realizing that even though porn addiction can be a problem, as long as he still loves me and finds me attractive, then i'm ok, i just chalk those girls up to the unattainable and thus written off, because i mean, we all have our fantasies, it's just being able to keep them at a safe distance from reality.
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