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There are many many things wrong with these situations.
FIRST there is NOTHING wrong with being mad or hurt when your boyfriend/husband checks out porn and even comments on it. What woman likes being compared to another woman, much less knowing that your lover lusts after some of these women??
The main thing to remember is that Porn Addiction is a REAL thing. If it ever appears that your man spends more time with these fake women, then on your relationship THERE IS A PROBLEM. It is not about you being inscure. Fuck that. It is about men having a problem with porn.
If you look at it together and it is consensual OR if you have no problem with your man looking at it, well then more power to you. Otherwise speak up and don't let this get you down.
I myself was in a relationship with a man who was/is addicted to women and porn. I was never good enough. No matter what I did to please him, or how good I looked, I couldnt compare.
Another thing is that a problem with porn could signal other problems in the relationship. Talk about it. If he isn't interested in how it makes you feel, he isn't interested in you.
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