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back to the original question..
- protection, start good habits early
- if youve watched porn, forget everything you know. It doesnt work that way. It will be awkward, noises will come where you dont think they should
- take it slow, I'm told for some girls it hurt like hell the first time
- communicate. SInce both of you dont have any experience, you dont know what will feel good, or feel right.
- afterwards, talk again, if you go all silent then she may think something was wrong, this goes back to the communication
- have fun, enjoy yourself, you'll remember this for a long long time
good luck
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"Life is possible only with illusions. And so, the question for the science of mental health must become an absolutely new and revolutionary one, yet one that reflects the essence of the human condition: On what level of illusion does one live?"
-- Ernest Becker, The Denial of Death
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