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Your best bet is to put her behind you until you have "gotten over it". Once there's some distance, then reevaluate how you feel.
Guys I've been "in love" with, I couldn't be friends with after the break up, it was just too hard to watch them with other women. Guys, that I liked, but didn't love, no problem, I stood up for one of them at his wedding about a year ago, and it was great.
Ask yourself how you'd feel about seeing her out with another guy, and when she leaves to go home with that guy, if you aren't disturbed by what she and he might be doing, and how you think it should be you instead, then the whole friendship idea is probably a bad one. If you can be happy for her, then pursue the friendship.
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