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Actually, to clarify, I do not have a problem with my bf looking at porn. when we first started dating, I got a kick out of him telling me what sites he'd been to and what he looked at....it was a turn on for me. my problem started when he was looking at it all the time, and our sex life started to die off...since then things have improved greatly because we've talked about it and come to an understanding. i haven't forbidden him to look at porn, so my checking up on him is for very nearly the same reasons as rubyee. as hard as this may be for some of you to understand, my boyfriend chooses not to look anymore (as far as i know, lol) because he knows it makes me uncomfortable....just like i know some of you feel (you're uncomfortable with it, but you tolerate it). well my bf has chosen to not give me anything to 'tolerate'. this isn't a case of where i've asked him not to and gotten upset when he does....
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