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Originally posted by Ryan
She said in the past she had been hurt by guys and she usually waits 2-3 weeks before pursuing any kind of sexual activity with someone.
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I really don't think this is strange at all.
I'm in college, I am apparently at least average in looks and I tend to attract women every once in a while. And I have a policy: if I'm actually interested in a girl for more than just sweaty animal sex, I won't kiss her before the end of the third date. Simple as that. I want to get to know her on a personal, non-physical level and see if that would gel, and I want her to have the opportunity to do the same.
It's led to some problems. Denying a girl who obviously leans in at the end of the night can be a blow to her self-esteem. That's what makes communication so important. When stuff like that happens, you just call up the next morning, let your date know you had an amazing time, and set something else up. Or, if you really enjoyed it, send some flowers.
Anyway, my point is: if she wants to wait, it's really not strange. Some people don't adhere to the socially normal "fuck after a week" thing.