Vasectomies are reversible so it's really not completely permenant.
If you've made the choice that you don't want children, and it's your choice, I honestly think that a vasectomy is an extremely loving thing to do. Tubal ligations or hysterectomies are pretty much major surgery. A vasectomy is an out patient procedure and well, an ice pack for a day or two, and you're good to go. (least according to my friends)
Birth control for women, is also hard on the body and can cause other complications, so if you plan on staying with the same woman for the rest of your life (and most folks don't get married if they don't) then why not opt for permenant birth control.
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