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Originally posted by raeanna74
Finding out if he's been at porn sites isn't really that important in my opinion. He needs to tell you himself. If you find out he's been lying you will only distrust him more and put the relationship on a rocky course. You need to make him feel he can trust you not to get on his case if he tells you he's been looking at porn. Until he trusts you not to get upset he will hide it from you IF he is still looking.
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That's my point. I KNOW he is looking, I don't care, and he knows that I know. My point in looking at what sites he goes to is to see what kinds of things he likes- not to spy on him and confirm a fact that I already know. I wouldn't confront him about it, because he has nothing to hide.