Well whatever you do. If you check the history and find out he's been looking at porn - I would suggest that you NOT confront him with it. Keep that piece of information to yourself.
#1. He may see it as you are snooping on him and feel like his privacy has been violated.
#2. Confrontation will make you run up against a brick wall. In situations like this, questions are your best course.
#3. He will just be smarter to hide it from you in the future. That is if he has been looking.
Finding out if he's been at porn sites isn't really that important in my opinion. He needs to tell you himself. If you find out he's been lying you will only distrust him more and put the relationship on a rocky course. You need to make him feel he can trust you not to get on his case if he tells you he's been looking at porn. Until he trusts you not to get upset he will hide it from you IF he is still looking.
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