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Originally posted by SiN
Hmm..I just have to comment on that I don't think the 'checking up on what bf looked at on the internet' is really a proper and respectful thing to do.
A good relationship is based on trust, yes?
And he should trust that you wont go sneaking around in his shit and following his tracks, and you should trust him enough that you feel no 'need' to.
Communication, Ladies! 
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Actually, I think you are completely wrong. It isn't a matter of trust at all. I know he looks at porn, and I don't care. He knows that I know, and he knows that I don't care.
So I really don't see where trust comes into it. I trust that he is looking at it, if that is what you mean.
Going to the sites he goes to to see what he is looking at is just another way to see what types of things he enjoys, so that maybe one night I can surprise him with something.
It isn't like I suspect him of cheating on me with a porn star, so I make sure he isn't looking at one star too much. In fact, if he had a problem with me looking at the sites he had gone to, all he would have to do is voice his opinion and tell me, and I would stop looking at it.
So I really don't feel that this involves a lack of trust.