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i've no problems. i trust my boyfriend completely and i know that he doesn't need to look at porn. he's told me several times that i've ruined porn for him. the girls in porn pictures are often looking at the camera or posing and it is all a very fake/set up environment..and he simply can't get off on it anymore because of the objectifying nature and how much more meaningful our connection is. sure, we may look at posts on exhibition and comment on it together, but we don't look at them for arousal. even if he were to look at porn though, i wouldn't mind. i'd try to make it something we could do or look at together. i just think they're tools for getting off..or tools in general. it shouldn't be personalized at all.
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