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Originally posted by DJ Happy
No offence to the chaps who said that you trusted your gfs but you don't trust the guys, but if you trust your gfs then what's the problem? To my amateur psychiatrist mind, saying that is just a way of saying that you want to trust your gf but don't.
I used to date a girl who was a "late bloomer." She was kind of weird looking in highschool, but became a ravishing beauty during college (lucky me). She was constantly being pursued by guys she used to go to school with who wanted a piece of her after seeing how she turned out. Although I knew this was going on, it didn't bother me in the slightest. I trusted her and knew that none of them were going to get anywhere.
Besides, it gave me a weird kind of power trip knowing that all these guys wanted to fuck the girl I got to go to bed with every night. They could try all they wanted, but at the end of the day she'd still come home to me.
Or maybe I'm just talking crap. I don't know. It's late and I'm tired.
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They are totally separate things in my mind. I trust my fiance and don't expect anything to happen between her and them. Not liking the fact that they are hanging around waiting for an opportunity is different than being worried that she's going to cheat on me with them.