Actually, I never asked my boyfriend to stop watching porn. I felt the same way as you all, that there must be some way for us to find a middle ground and find a solution that we both liked. But my boyfriend, without my asking, said that he just wouldn't look anymore....and I didn't argue, lol. Like I said, things are better now...him not looking has actually worked out the best for both of us (he had even admitted that it was becoming too much of a temptation for him...). And I agree with you all too....I wish we could actually watch porn together, because I enjoy it too, but even though I've brought it up, he doesn't seem too psyched about it, so i dunno.....
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