I deal with not getting what I want by not wanting. I mean sure, I would prefer to have more money than less, and I'd prefer to be dating some supermodel-hot, incredibly interesting girl that I'm madly in love with, but if I don't get it, I'm not really going to care. I'm not sure how I did it, but I gotta say, it works really well. Just found out through some books I've been reading that it's basically the central idea behind Buddhism, so if you want to try this route, check that out.
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