There was a scene in the movie When Harry Met Sally (chick flick), where Harry makes the assertion that men and women could never be friends because sex gets in the way. That men just always want to have sex with that woman, with any woman really, it doesnt matter.
Now, in my experience I don't see that being the case, my closest friends are male, and their girlfriends/wives might get a tad miffed if they stepped out.
Can you gents be friends with a woman, and not have sex come into play, or is Harry right, that you just want to nail that comes into your line of vision. If you can be friends with a woman, without having illicit thoughts, then why couldn't your girlfriend be friends with a man?
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