My worry wouldn't so much be that she'd want to cheat on me or anything, but that the guy isn't really a good friend. I don't like hanging out with people that aren't good friends to me, and I don't want my girlfriend to hang out with people that aren't good to her.
I worry more about her girlfriends, actually. Girls have a way of being so mean and manipulative to each other, and I've seen how it can hurt Janet. How frustrating it is for her.
Good people are hard to come by.
More importantly though, if you can't trust your girlfriend, what kind of relationship do you really have? It is ok to worry about those who you love, but trust them and expect them to always try to do the right thing.
There's no good in living in fear. And if you are worried about something, then talk to her about it.
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