Nancy

I've never felt insecure when loverboy watches porn. I did, however, dislike that he used pictures of (naked) women as wallpapers on his computer. It made me feel insecure about the two of us and I thought that it meant that he didn't think I was pretty or that he didn't love me. Obviously none of this was the case as I found out when we talked about it. He just enjoys the beauty/look of other women. As does your boyfriend whenever he watches porn. We solved our little problem by talking about it as should you.

Keeping your boyfriend from watching porn is not the answer. You asked him to stop watching porn because it suddenly makes you feel that you're being taken for granted. Then fix that! Talk to him about it. Tell him about your needs/desires instead: that you'd like him to spend more time in bed pleasing you than watching so much porn.... If he's a reasonable man he'd understand that. I hope you guys figure it out because there should be room for watching porn without destroying your sex life

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I have all the characteristics of a human being: blood, flesh, skin, hair; but not a single, clear, identifiable emotion, except for greed and disgust. Something horrible is happening inside of me and I don't know why. My nightly bloodlust has overflown into my days. I feel lethal, on the verge of frenzy.
I think my mask of sanity is about to slip.