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Originally posted by Contrary
I'll verify that this relationship has been somewhat of a power struggle, but i don't know if that will ever change because of her nature, shes definatly manipulative and stubborn, and i can be stubborn at times also....
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Blame doesn't work in a relationship. Try owning your fair share. From how you described it, YOU'RE the one being manipulative and stubborn. Hard as it may be to cop to it, that's YOUR nature.
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I dont know if once we grow up a little and mature a bit if that'll change, and we'll find some way to make things work, or if im letting my emotions get in the way of making a good decision about getting back with her or not. any takes on that subject?
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Well sure. First of all, "once we grow up a little".... When is that going to happen exactly? You're mature enough to be in a relationship. How about being grown up NOW?
What's in the way of you making a good decision is this: you'd rather be right than be happy. In your allmighty opinion you're RIGHT about how she did you wrong. You've got no room at all for other explanations--I mean, who needs one? You're RIGHT, aren't you? You're so RIGHT about it you can't see past the end of your nose. And you're killing of any joy or love that might be in your relationship in exchange for the wonderful experience of being RIGHT about that.