I'll verify that this relationship has been somewhat of a power struggle, but i don't know if that will ever change because of her nature, shes definatly manipulative and stubborn, and i can be stubborn at times also, most of our conversations end up in arguements lately. I'll also admit that im realizing that we both need to grow up, argueing over petty things shouldnt be something we do every day, but it happens because of our stubborness. Thanks for your comments everyone, greatly appreciated, keep um comin =)
I'm just hoping that my feelings for her arent getting in the way of making the right decision, just based on both of our personality types and how we deal with things, it makes it hard to get along, Im the guy who doesnt like to be pushed around or disrespected, if i do, i get stubborn and hot headed, and shes the domineering type definatly, tomboyish, doesnt take no for an answer, likes to argue on occasion for fun, can be downright nasty when she doesn't get her way, and she plays games / is manipulative too much.
I dont know if once we grow up a little and mature a bit if that'll change, and we'll find some way to make things work, or if im letting my emotions get in the way of making a good decision about getting back with her or not. any takes on that subject? Thanks again everyone, big help.
-Phil
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