Let me just preface this by stating that these are simply my opinions based on my observations, and their validity is entirely subjective.
When she took this guy to prom, at best she was trying to make you jealous. She apparently succeeded to well, and blames you for overreacting. "she called me today telling me how its all my fault that we broke up and all this crap" is a great indicator.
You obviously want the relationship back, and I suggest you do your best. There aren't going to be any more proms in your future. And as far as people in serious relationships not pulling that shit on eachother, you'd be surprized. This one girl I know is frustrated that her boyfriend trusts her too much to get jealous when she hangs out with other guys. (Yes, I am/have been her IW.) I suggest you not read too much into it.
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