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It sounds like high school...
I don't know... what gets me about this is that it sounds like a large part of your relationship is based around power games. I typically have huge reservations about people marrying their high school sweethearts... so, if you're going to stay with her, you should do it because you've found something in her that is really endearing to the point where you think it is worth holding onto and depriving yourself of experiencing anything else.
I know you aren't talking about marriage, but spending more of high school with someone is quite a commitment. The next stage of your life is where you're really going to start finding yourself and determining where you want to go with your adulthood.
You were very clear in your boundaries. And she was obviously trying to manipulate you, and is continuing to do so by blaming you for holding to your word. A big part of relationships is flexibility and compromise, so I don't know... now is really the time for you to decide if you feel like she's going to be with the struggle to be with for a long time or if you'd like to spend time after high school in a different way.
It's up to you and your values and weighing the value of all of your experiences together.
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