As far as websites go, you could try:
www.menshealth.com
www.t-mag.com
www.bodybuilding.com
Those are decent sites, although T Mag can be a little "hardcore" at times.
Really, until you figure out what kind of goals you're looking to achieve, it'd be hard to recommend any specific course of action.
However, since you mentioned wanting to "get in shape" but not be too hardcore, try the Men's Health workout plan often referred to as the Iron Manual. It's a year long, but it's broken into 10 or 12 different segments. The first focuses on general toning and conditioning, while the later segments focus more on speed, mass, strength, or specific bodyparts. It's a good way to get an all-around fitness routine without having to do as much planning (since it basically sets it all out for you). It also has recommendations for reps and tells you how to set up each routine (whether it should be done with long breaks, shortbreaks, in triads, etc).
I "followed" phase 1 of that routine (I didn't stick with it very well, though) and had some pretty good results. It doesn't take too long to do (as far as time spent in the gym), and it's very, very effective.
Good luck!