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My younger brother would have freaked if I had sex with a jerk at any time. We talked a lot about sex and I knew he had a better idea of who was a jerk and who wasn't. He knew guys better than me. He listened when I talked to him about guys and if he had a problem with a guy I knew I could ask him why and get a logical reason. It all depends on your relationship with your sis. Listen to her. Don't judge her for her choice. It's done, she can't change it, and making her feel bad about it is going to make her tune you out. Do talk to her about what made her make that choice and what she wants in a guy.
I agree some young boys are so stupid. But hey some don't grow out of it. Just help your sister educate herself and make better choices in the future.
I know what your saying about horny boys. I have one girl who comes to stay at my house every now and then. She's 11 and starting to ask questions about sex and things. Just last Friday she was telling me about a boy in her class. He sounds like a jerk. He was joking around about sex and "peeking" in his pants, and bragging about um size. I asked her what she thought of him. Her response - he's funny - then she paused and I just waited - then she finished with - and WIERD and she didn't like him. I think she was waiting to see my evaluation of the guy before she gave her final one. When I let her decide and then "approved" - well I don't think she'll be his first "victim" at least. She's made her decision - I didn't make it for her - she'll stick with it. Young girls are all about acceptance and will do almost anything for it. Support and accept her and perhaps she'll turn to you next time she's got a tuff decision.
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