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Originally posted by Xsas
Stop being her friend, and stop supplicating her. Girls don't like guys who are their bitch, they like guys who have confidence and are in control. Basically stop whoring yourself out.
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I'd have to agree with Xsas, in a way. You can still be her friend, but you need to stop being happy with JUST being her friend. You want more, and it sounds like she does too. You want to get through this with no hard feelings, but that's not a realistic goal. Whenever more than one people and emotions are involved, there's going to be hurt feelings. This current boyfriend of hers sounds like he was just rebound anyway. If you don't step up and make your feelings clear right now, then you're just hurting yourself. Look out for number one. There are times when being selfish is appropriate, and buddy, you're there.