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Look - you have to watch out for family, but you have to take care of yourself first and foremost. If you don't and the shit really hits the fan - you do no help to them, allowing your sister to destroy the network which you have built.
Besides - that goes against all of the hard work that she is supposed to LEARN by finding a job. She needs a job, but in order to get that job, she needs to EARN that job. Handing her another one on a silver platter will not help her.
I love my family - but I love them enough to let them fall, take their bumps, and learn from life's lessons. Don't get me wrong, you should be there to help them back up, but only that and no more. Otherwise - you deprive them of experiences that can shape them into a better person.
The old adage, "If you give a man a fish..." applies here. Teach her how to fish. Fix up her resume. Help her to find Volunteer work even, just to get started. In the long run, it will help her much more.
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