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Seaver. Not to be a condescending fuck, but those rules are complete bunk. "Rules" cannot be applied to relationships.
I've asked plenty of women if I could kiss them, all with positive results. I've also just done it. It depends ENTIRELY upon the woman I'm with.
And movies are fine as a first date... if she's that kind of woman. My current girlfriend is a movie fanatic. We watch movies, play video games, and have an excellent time together. Yes, we play pool and all that... but our first "date" was watching a movie together in her room and playing some sort of video game together. We're perfectly happy together.
And many of the girls I've been with have enjoyed it when the FIRST thing I did was "put the moves on them." I'm a physical kind of guy, and I generally find it easier to communicate an emotion by touching someone than talking to them. It's worked just fine as a first move.
So my point is... you can't be sure about any of that. Really, you have to play it by ear. In much the same way that every woman is different, every woman's tastes are different. By trying to apply rules to them, you degrade every woman you talk to into a generic ball of flesh. If that's what you feel, I'm not going to judge you. I'm just saying we don't ALL feel that way.
And redarrow, my advice is this: just pay attention to her. Listen to her, watch her. From your description, it sounds like she is sending out signals, but the only way you can be sure is by communicating. With HER. Whether that's through talking or other means is totally up to you, but it sounds like you have a pretty good idea of what you're doing anyway. I wish you the best of luck, and enjoy yourself.
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