| part of the whole idea of this community is the "sharing" thing, but i don't think some people quite understand that "sharing" is a two-way thing, not just staring at boobies.  sure, i stare at the boobies too, but usually after a stop in general discussion and the ladies' lounge.  i think the active community members can set a good example for lurkers to follow, and if they don't follow it...they need to realize they are a drain on the resources of this community and may be removed from it. 
				__________________If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau
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