is this thread still alive? well, bump anyways.
i have this problem where i can't seem to initiate any type of contact with these girls, i just never have the right thing to start of a good conversation or the right idea to get something going. i end up being the one who waits for them to talk to me so that i've been sort of "pushed into the water" and am in the thick of it, where i can just start improvising what i say, and usually i relax after that.
the problem with me is i am too much of a thinker, i analyze when would be the best time to do this, when would be the best time to meet her, and then i never have a plan as to what to do.
as for the 1st lesson in this post i'm doing everything i can in that department, so my self-esteem should be good enough to give me confidence to approach them, but i have this inferiority complex when it comes to girls that i don't deserve any of them...they are just so superior.
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