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Originally posted by rockzilla
I wouldn't worry too much about when you're going to get married Shades. Raeanna said it best, you're not going to find anyone until you stop agonizing over your lonliness and become happy with who you are as an individual.
Myself, I have no desire to marry, and don't want kids. That doesn't change the advice though. You'll know when you're ready and who the right person is. Until then, just focus on growing as an individual. Doing anything else will just make you miserable.
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that's right. had i gotten married to the other girl that I was betrothed to in my early 20's I'd probably have a kid or two and be divorced.
I had to spend a good amount of time learning and becoming comfortable with being me, before I could be with someone else. great advice!!