I havent read through all the posts, I have just read through the first page and to me it just seems as though your trying to justify what you plan on doing, because you know its wrong. If you have to think about it and ask the question your telling yourself its not right...is it cheating, thats not for any of us to say what label you should put on it, but if your questioning it then its wrong. I like the idea that CinnamonGirl has, go out as a friend and invite your GF along. That way its all up in the open. I would think this would solve your questions on about all the levels of your question.
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