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If after four years you are still *unsure*, then as I said, you have decided on an unconcious level. From what you've just said it makes it even more obvious that you need to break it off. Right now you are reluctant to throw away a !!!past!!!, and by doing so you are throwing away your future. You said it yourself," I've just noticed the my current gf and I have alot similar from the past when we were in univeristy...but as we grow...we seem to be splitting apart (in our interests etc...).....but because of such the awesome times we had in school...it's hard to think about throwing that all away."
It may be hard but you need to think of what's in your and your girlfriend's best interests. If you decide that the past is that important to you then you need to get your shit together and put all your effort into making your current relationship work. Otherwise you are just going to ruin your life and ,even worse, your girlfriends.
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Apathy: The best outlook this side of I don't give a damn.
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