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I'm White and my husband (Primal) is Black. We have lived in Kansas, Iowa and Oklahoma. Which would you think is the worst? Oklahoma? No way... it was Iowa. We were yelled at and chased in our car once there and always got hateful looks whenever we went anywhere. We were in college there and the small town girls used to ask me dumb ass questions about him. They had literally never known anyone who was black and it was just a curiosity thing. What was funny is I have never dated anyone but him, so I couldn't even tell them about the comparisons they were looking for. Real example: No I DON'T know what it's like to kiss a white guy. Would it really be fucking different?
So I guess it's pretty clear where I stand on the subject. We have been through a lot together but it's never made me want to quit. I have always personally been attracted to men with darker skin, hair and eyes. But that was Italians, Asians, Latinos, and those white men that had dark hair and eyes. My brother has had 2 Latina wives but currently is married to a blonde American woman. So we both have a thing for dark haired people apparently, but both our parents are white. It's just personal preference.
(This was long, sorry! This topic is close to my heart.)
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Thought for the day: Men are like fine wine. They start out as grapes, and it's up to the women to stomp the crap out of them until they turn into something acceptable to have dinner with.
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