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I've had a pretty long relationship with a Korean girl just a year ago. She was born and raised in America, but is 1st generation here so her family isnt fully Americanized.
The reason she said she was attracted to me was my confidence. This is no lie, I'm the type of guy who will talk to any girl, confidence is abundant with me. According to her, though, Asian men are more subtle. In their culture most matches are not arranged, but family DO play a very important part in playing match-up. So lots of Asian guys just dont approach women as openly as I guess Whites do.
Gross overestimation? possibly. As I said thats what she told me. I do see a lot of truth in it though, every woman everywhere is attracted to confidence. Our society the man has to be dripping with it to make the first approach, get her number, ask/figure out the first date, and carry the relationship through the first couple weeks.... the entire time risking failure at every step. If you are used to parents setting you up you dont have to go through this, maybe they just never got experience doing things for themselves.
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