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Originally posted by John Henry
...The only things I've tried so far are drinking and ignoring the problem. I've talked to my friends about it and most of them have drawn a blank. I don't hate her and I don't really want to, so what's the best way to get over her? Is a rebound a good idea? Should I keep talking to people about it or will that just drive away all my friends and keep me dwelling on her?
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Don't try to drink the pain away, man...
Get out and go
do something. Take Taekwondo lessons... Learn to play the guitar.... Go to the gym and workout your stress.
Break-ups are never easy regardless of whether it's a mutual or unilateral decision, however you must move on man. I know it hurts, but don't try to ignore the pain----endure it, grieve if you must, but then make the resolution to move on.
Good luck.