Usually, I'm in the "quickie" camp (anywhere from 3-15 minutes). That's for the times when I'm totally alone, and just wanna get off.
However, lately, I've been doing the whole phone thing with someone, and of course I try to take my time (up to 4 hours) with that, and enjoy the experience.
Sometimes, it's SOLELY for the experience. For example, as of a few days ago, a girl I've been "talking" with, convinced me to completely give up orgasms until I come to see her at the end of the month (sort of a control thing, and a test of my will power rolled up in one). So, the closest thing I can get to pleasure is to enjoy the process.
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it's all about self-indulgence
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