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I like the thinking of Knifemissle. Now I still haven't decided to do anything yet...but I don't see a compariosn to this situation and the escort scenario. I just want to get to know the girl better. Hell it could end up as a great friendship......or it could lead to something more.....or nothing at all......but the intention is to get to know her better. For me.....the difference between marriage and not....is the ability to be able to choose to 'trade up ' so to speak...otherwise.....why wouldn't I be married after 4 years??? But why is that a bad thing (as alot of you are suggesting).....maybe I'm not with the right girl now, and maybe I am.....but how will I know.....if I can't even talk to other girls????? I see cheating as an intimate encounter...possibly even holding holds....but meeting a stranger for a coffee, in my books isn't. Now doing it without telling my current gf.....makes it a little worse...and vice versa if she were to pull that one on me.....yeah I'd be mad......but I wouldn't dump her over it.....so....I dunno......there's alot of differing opinions on here....and I still haven't decided on the course I should / will take......but thanks for your thoughts folks
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