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I personally do not stay friends with any girl I break up with-A girl is a sexual interest first and a friend second, after you've gotten to know her. after the relationship is gone, so is the friendship in my eyes. I'm not saying I hate them or anything but I'm one to not be able to be friends outside of a relationship with someone I've had sex with. I'm really picky about friends anymore anyway and being a loner I really don't mind having less.
All this doesn't mean I can move on right off the bat. You're gonna want her back, you're gonna want to agonize over her. Give yourself new hangouts that you two didn't go to-make yourself a new environment. I throw away most everything a girl has given me after a breakup to be remonded of her less. I wouldn't fight thoughts about her but do try to keep occupied with unrelated things. Perhaps when she pops into your mind just say,"i'm going to agonize over this for 60 seconds" and pour your heart into missing her and what went wrong and all that. Then let it go and go back to what you were doing.
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I happen to like the words "fuck", "cock", "pussy", "tits", "cunt", "twat", "shit" and even "bitch". As long as I am not using them to describe you, don't go telling me whether or not I can/should use them...that is, if you want me to continue refraining from using them to describe you. ~Prince
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