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just wanna chime in and say that meeting her for coffee is a bad idea.
Think of it this way, what are the possible outcomes of this situation:
1. you don't go or pursue the new girl, but thoughts of her are in your head and eventually, you resent your current gf bc she is keeping you from being with other, interesting people. Your resentment builds and either you have a serious talk wiht your current gf and you resolve to make it work, or the talk is a breakup talk.
2. you go for coffee, fall head over heels in lust, maybe won't do anything with her, but you'll think about it. The rest of this goes as scenario 1
3. You go for coffee, realize she's just wanting in your pants and while you find that flattering, you realize it's very shallow and you don't want to ruin a 4 yr relationship bc of it, so you don't see her anymore and you dno't really think of her
4. your GF finds this post and kicks you off the island.
5. you realize you're already cheating in your head and feel guilty.
6. You realize you are unsure of the 4yr relationship and sit down and have a serious talk getting everything out in the open, which will either break you both up or you'll propose.
Sounds like you're just looking for a backup or an excuse to break up.
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Chris
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