Hossified, if you want a better relationship than the one you currently have, do one of two things.
1> Break up with your current GF and find another girl.
2> Work hard on your relationship and try to make it better.
You chose option 3:
3> Start looking around for prospects of women who would make a better GF than the one you have.
The problem with option 3 is you are accepting and expecting commitment from your partner, but you aren't being committed to them. You are actually looking for another relationship. This is why people are saying you are cheating.
If you are in a committed relationship, you shouldn't be looking to trade up. If you want to trade up, be a fucking man about it and break up with your girlfriend.
The difference between what you want to do, and a married women who fucks strangers and trys to find a better person to be her husband, is a matter of degree not kind.
Could your girlfriend prove that your behavriour was less then perfect? No. It being difficult to catch you doesn't mean you didn't do the crime.
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Last edited by JHVH : 10-29-4004 BC at 09:00 PM. Reason: Time for a rest.
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