If I recall correctily Hossified, you posted a thread a few weeks ago with concerns about your girlfriend's weight gain and the problems you were having dealing with it. I guess you have to look at yourself and your relationship and see if you are trying to find an "out" so you can move on. I'm not saying thats the deal but if you are unhappy in some way then that may be why you are having such a delima with this.
To answer the question you originally asked, I'd have to say yeah its cheating. If my girlfriend met some guy in a bar, drove him home, stayed up til five am talking and then arranged to meet him out for coffee sometime all without ever mentioning him to me then I would totally call her on it. I'd be angry and hurt and beyond suspicious. If you can't take your girlfriend with you to meet this other girl then its cheating and can only turn out badly. Do yourself a favor and forget about this girl until you understand where you stand with your current relationship.
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