You repeatedly want to know if it's cheating. Is becoming friends with a girl - if you already have a girlfriend - cheating? Of course not. That's a stupid question to ask.
However, this isn't an average girl - this is a girl who wants you. If you ask her out for coffee, you should tell her straight up that you have a girlfriend and you aren't interested in cheating on your girlfriend. From there, you can see if you're still interested in being friends with the girl or if she just wanted to sleep with you.
The most damning thing that you've done, hossified, is to repeatedly ask if it's cheating. That pretty much proves you have more than innocent friendship in mind - and that's why there's so much discussion.
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