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Originally posted by shakran
let's be blunt. You're obviously adding a lot of stress to the relationship by trying repeatedly to get her to go where she is not yet comfortable going.
Is your goal to have a good relationship, or is your goal to make out? Try letting her make the first move. If you quit acting like a horny teenager and start acting like someone who cares about her and her comfort level, she might just come around faster than if you keep bashing your head up against the same wall.
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AGREED! I couldn't have put it better. The best things in life don't happen instantly, you have to work for them and love is one of the best things out there. I'm sure kissing her isn't even something you want to do, you just assume it's something you need to do to progress the relationship because thats what you've done all your life. Try taking it slower, notice her, talk to her, give her the love and attention she needs and she will come around in no time.