hossified

...basically what it comes down to...is I thought she was a cool chick (and attractive, smart, etc..)....and possibly..there may be potential for something more than a friendship....who knows...?? But I would like to get to know her first (on a friend basis) to see if that is a possibility....and if that were the case...than I would have to take the appropriate actions with my current gf.

..so honestly there are dual motivations here.....as a friend and the possibility of more (simply because she has the hots for me and becasue she is attractive)


it all comes down to temptation I guess. Some of your points are well taken Averett. I think if I told my gf in the way you said...that whe would have no problem...but there's a little piece that says she might. So I figure why get into a bunch of hot water....overr a coffee......if she won't even know. I guess I am worried....that if the coffee part goes well....where do I stop practicing that philosophy?? Will it turn into .... oh it was just a movie...she won't find out.....oh it was just a kiss she won't find out.....etc....I guess I'm just torn with the thought of why I can't see what else it out there while still seeing my current gf...as long as there is no intimate contact??? Is it really much different than if it was a co-worker who you thought was attractive...and going for lunch with them.....and say they had a crush on you??? (man....written that way...that seems kinda bad too.....??)

tough call

...or should I just walk away......???