If it was me I would just stop trying it, for a little while anyway, cos if she does have a problem it will be adding a lot of pressure that the situation keeps coming up... so I would just totally go at her pace, for a couple of weeks anyway, and then maybe if she still doesnt want to, you should ask her why she doesnt want to? I mean, if she doesnt you have to respect that, but maybe she does want to but she has some issues and talking about it could help... I would just recomend not putting pressure on her and not making her feel threatened at all right now.
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