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i agree with stephen, you cant make someone lose the weight. but you can encourage her.
i think its good that she realizes she has a problem, but like everyone else said, she has to want to do something about it. obviously she's complaining but not taking action, even though you have told her some reasonable courses of action she could take. i imagine you love her for who she is and like her however she looks, but you're pretty much just tired of her whining when nothing is getting done about the "problem" she is having. i guess i'm not too much of a help, but i know i've gained about 10 lbs in the last few months, and i'm eating slimfast bars and less junk, drinking more water, walking when i can, taking stairs instead of elevators, and i recently started going to the gym and i bought a bun and thigh roller.
if you can somehow get your SO to start small and work her way up. like suggest she take stairs instead of elevators. or ride her bike or walk when its a close distance. you know?
hey i hope that all works out for you. and though it is sad to see things end after 2 and a half years, if she isnt into the relationship like you are (i.e. caring enough about herself and the relationship to take care of her problems) then maybe it is best to take a break until she has some time to get things straight.
for women, excessive eating can be caused by other, deeper problems, so you never know....maybe something else is wrong. but anyhow, good luck.
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